tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3757566963317785734.post6111827966282614559..comments2023-08-07T11:10:01.219-04:00Comments on Brave Bride: #33: (World's most unscientific) study on wedding favorsKim NYChttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17656685309192458647noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3757566963317785734.post-55344578939675089162010-07-06T13:29:52.440-04:002010-07-06T13:29:52.440-04:00Poet, that kind of unnecessary stress is what this...Poet, that kind of unnecessary stress is what this post speaks to. I mean, some indecisiveness and frustration is to be expected. But at some point stress over a giveaway is just plain a waste of time, and it's evidence that the big bad wedding industry has brainwashed us into thinking that every little detail of a wedding must be "perfect" - that it must fit into the world's expectations of what is "proper". <br /><br />Boo. Yuck. Barf.Kim NYChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17656685309192458647noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3757566963317785734.post-24165691198584805062010-07-05T12:39:26.021-04:002010-07-05T12:39:26.021-04:00I will tell you that I spent many an hour looking ...I will tell you that I spent many an hour looking at websites and annoying Gabe, my mom and my bridesmaids about favors. I found adorable photo albums online. They were $2.50 each which is more than we wanted to spend but since they were a million times nicer than anything else we saw we bought them. If we have leftovers we'll just give them out to friends or family that couldn't make. I've been to weddings where the favor wasn't great and I didn't take it home. I think people will like mine.Juggling ELAhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18205398850714405521noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3757566963317785734.post-61040231042808405492010-07-01T12:39:20.527-04:002010-07-01T12:39:20.527-04:00Those are some cool ideas. LOVE the choice between...Those are some cool ideas. LOVE the choice between 2 CD's. <br /><br />But yeah, who remembers no favors? Not many. And even if they did, it's not like it's offensive or anything. <br /><br />And as for the rest of your favor memories...well, just goes to show that you never know who will like or use what you give away. Or who will use your mail catcher as a hair accessory organizer. ;)Kim NYChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17656685309192458647noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3757566963317785734.post-50302319319900735402010-06-30T22:04:46.794-04:002010-06-30T22:04:46.794-04:00Yes - actually I have quite a few memories to shar...Yes - actually I have quite a few memories to share about getting or not getting favors.<br /><br />About 3 years ago I went to a wedding with no favors at all, and honestly I didn't even notice until 2 years later, starting to plan our own wedding, and thinking "favors?...Beth didn't have favors. Oh my - I hadn't even noticed!" Seriously, I didn't notice.<br /><br />Before that, I attended one where the favor was a choice of 2 mix CDs - modern classical (for older folks) and contemporary hippie traveler music (for us young'uns). There were leftovers so I got one of each. They were great. I love them and still have the music on my hard drive. (The groom is now a grad student of music. Good taste.)<br /><br />Before that, I attended one where we got these little blue flowerpots and seed packets of forget-me-nots (to plant and remember, see). Very cute, but I lived in a city (not the same one I'm in now) and couldn't even get dirt for the pot. The seeds got scattered in a park, and the pot was my catch-all on an end table until I moved and I donated it to Goodwill. Nice idea, not really useful for every guest.<br /><br />I missed a friend's wedding but she gave me a favor anyway: one of those hang-up mail catchers you can keep incoming mail in, with an Indian look. I love all things of Indian aesthetic so I do use it (but it hangs in my closet for hair clips and other items).<br /><br />When I was a kid I loved those bubble tubes, but I can say that the adults generally thought they were silly - I got to keep something like half of them. I never bought bubbles at a dime store - I always had enough wedding bubbles left! As an adult, though, I would probably just give mine to a kid (or use it to entertain our cat).Jenna Lynn Codyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04032277820150000198noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3757566963317785734.post-29523607238510808462010-06-30T09:00:05.666-04:002010-06-30T09:00:05.666-04:00Right on, Jenna. I like the idea of having an asso...Right on, Jenna. I like the idea of having an assortment of little treats throughout the reception.<br /><br />Wondering...have you ever been a guest at a wedding where there were no favors? If yes, were you surprised? Disappointed? Could you care less? Or did you not even notice?<br /><br />The best party favor I've ever received was actually a chocolate bar at my friend's surprise 30th birthday party. Why? Because I wasn't expecting to go home with a treat from a 30-year-old man's party! Nowadays when I go home with a wedding favor (now this is strange, and possibly rude), my mind goes straight to wondering how much agony and money went into the favors, as opposed to appreciating it as a thank you from the hosts.Kim NYChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17656685309192458647noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3757566963317785734.post-53435870280272483932010-06-29T23:32:25.538-04:002010-06-29T23:32:25.538-04:00I am completely with you on this and your previous...I am completely with you on this and your previous favor post.<br /><br />I fretted briefly about favors - chopsticks? Sweets? tea? - until I realized, dude, I don't need to spend $100-$300 to give my guests some extra thing after I bought them dinner, drinks and dessert. We'll have truffles with dessert (tiramisu, not wedding cake) and a very modest tea bar (six kinds of our favorite tea on offer, hardly a big production)...if people really want a "favor" they can swipe a truffle for later or even snag a teabag.<br /><br />We also did decide to put out three bowls of small candies we like - Kopiko coffee, matcha tea and Ting Ting Jahe soft ginger, but more of an after-dinner refreshment than as "favors"...people are welcome to take a few home if they like.Jenna Lynn Codyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04032277820150000198noreply@blogger.com